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And, what a time this now is.
I'm sitting here in bed, in the early morning hours of a New Year's Eve, naked while typing this,
as my man sits beeside me, naked and typing out his feelings about how his fellow Brothers need to "Man Up" by beecoming emotionally fluent and accepting that beeing vulnerable is about beeing transparent and honest.
Whew! Thank God I finally "Woman'ed Up!" ;)
Recently, we were out to dinner with a group of long-standing community members when One of them exclaimed how his past perception of me was, "Cara doesn't need a man." And, I'm like ~
"OF COURSE I NEED A MAN." I need a man like a fish needs water.
Perhaps, my writing comes across as unfairly directed at men in regards to how much waking up the collective male psyche needs to, and must, do. But, one thing you must understand, is that us sisters have spent decades now stepping forward, acknowledging our systemic oppression and then re-claiming our whole Selves by gathering together in sisterhood for the soul purpose of our healing. Men, you must acknowledge how patriarchy has oppressed you, too - silenced your voices; cut off your balls; emasculated and victimized you; disconnected you from your intuition, your feelings, your sensing bodies, and, even, healthy, vibrant sex lives (pornography is not sex!); as well as brainwashed you into beelieving that anything other than gentle harmony is innate and natural to our human species.
Guess what?
You can have lots of great, daily sex with a real human beeing who wants to make passionate love to you. No force needed.
However, I am not just here to call our men out, I am also here to support and love them. To encourage them to strive for their Highest Selves, to LOVE them and inspire them with my soft femininity as well as exciting invitation.
And, I am also here to seek truth at all costs, even if it makes me 'unpopular' or a perceived 'threat' to any and all "establishments," or others. As well, I equally aim to hold my sisters (and myself) accountable.
Men, I will give you this ~ if, in getting to know any adult woman, she uses a baby voice to greet you or connect with you, RUN run RUN in the other direction. Beecause, thus far, my experience has been that this is a tool of manipulation meant to draw you into a perceived safe space when, in actuality, it is more than likely a facade that hides a cold, hard woman beehind it.
Trust Your Gut. Follow Truth.
(Even when it's uncomfortable.)
Yep. We've all got boat loads of work to do.
Here's to sowing the seeds for us all collectively doing this work ~ the most important of all ~ on this New Moon of 2014.
